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©
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2001
Mark
J. McGarry
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So I had few
expectations for the reunion, a gathering of people I didn't know
very well back in the day, and hadn't kept in touch with in the
decades since. In my hotel room a hundred yards from the function
room where the event had already begun, I even briefly entertained
the idea of not going. But I did go downstairs, after making a few
preparations. Mindful of Drew Carey's reaction after receiving an
invitation to his high school reunion ("Oh, man, six months
to lose 30 pounds and get a real job"), I stuck my Nebula nominee
pin in my lapel, slipped some freshly printed business cards into
my wallet, and straightened my National Zoo panda tie.
Eric Spencer,
George Thompson, Matthew Willis, Brenda Thompson
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I cannot say
it felt as if I had come home. "Home" does not have the
same meaning to me as it does for many other people. My parents
divorced when I was 8; I was 14 years old the last time I saw my
father. He's dead now, something I learned several years after the
fact. I have no siblings. There is no physical place for me to come
home to; I grew up in a series of apartments. But as my close friends
have always been family to me, perhaps this reunion was like coming
home.
Home is the
place where they know you. It's a collection of shared experience
and common memories. For some, home is the house where you slept
each night, the squeak of the closet door and the shadows under
the basement stairs. It's the little grocery store at the corner
and the old man behind the counter, the neighbor across the street,
the tree you climbed.
Jake Peters
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For me, I realized,
home is the French teacher who would rap inattentive students on
the top of the head, the gym coach who would order the unwary to
go get a bucket of steam, the games of tackle before school. It's
the people who smile when they hear about the books written by that
shy kid who drew spaceships in the back of his notebook. Home is
the woman who teaches sculpting at the high school you both attended;
the dorky kid who went on to the Sorbonne; the fellow science-fiction
fan who went through several wives before he hung himself; the quiet
kid who built a business and a family, got cancer, beat it, and
emerged a quiet, peaceful soul; the lawyers and dot-commers and
counselors; the girl who can still make you think, "If only...?"
Ron Simmons
with Michelle Ungerman Sanders, Jill Abrams Klein, Kate Mounteer
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I hadn't seen
most of them for 15 or 25 years; a few, I hadn't even thought of
in all that time. Others would come up in conversation every year
or three; "Whatever happened to...?" Some I recognized
right away that night; others, I couldn't understand how I'd failed
to recognize them. Many, I never knew back then, and didn't get
to know this time around, either. A few, I spoke to more that night
than I did during all our years in school.
I took some
business cards, made note of some addresses, but knew better than
to say, "This time we'll keep in touch." That's all right.
Home is a place you leave, but you can always come back.
Michelle
Ungerman Sanders, Marcy Lieberman Weisburgh
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